IF we FaLL In LoVe!..

"IF We Fall in Love"

When you think of your past love, you view the
past as a failure. But when you find a new love,
you view the past as a teacher.

In the game of
love, it doesn’t really matter who won or lost.
What is important is you know when to hold on and
when to let go! You will know you really love
someone when you want him or her to be happy,
even
if their happiness means you’re not part of it.
Everything
happens for the best. If the person you love
doesn’t love you back, don’t be afraid to lose
someone else again, for you’ll never know unless
you give it a try. You’ll never love a person
unless you risk for love. Love strives in hurting.
If you don’t get hurt, you don’t learn how to
love. Love doesn’t hurt at all times. Though the
hurting is still there to test you, to help you
grow. Don’t find love, let love find you. That’s
why it’s called falling in love because you don’t
force yourself to fall, you just fall. You cannot
finish a book, without losing its chapters. If you
want to go on, then you have to leave the past as
you turn the pages.

Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won
by a single caress. It is a lifetime venture in
which we are always learning, discovering, and
growing. The greatest irony of love is letting go
when you need to hold on and
holding on when you need to let go. We lose
someone we lose, only when we are destined to
find
someone else who can love us even more than that
we can love ourselves. On falling out of love,
take some time to heal and then get back on the
horse. But don’t ever make the same mistake of
riding the same one that threw you the first time.
To love is to risk rejection; to leave is to risk
dying, to hope is to risk failure. But risk must
be taken
because the greatest hazard in life is to risk
nothing. To expose your feelings is to expose true
self; to love is to risk not to be loved in return.

How to define love: Fall but do not stumble, be
constant but not. To reach for another is to risk
persistent, share and never be unfair, understand
and try not to demand, be hurt but never keep the
pain. Love is like a knife. It can stub the heart
or can carve wonderful images into the soul that
always last for a lifetime. Love I supposed to be
the most wonderful feeling. It should inspire you
and give you joy and strength. But sometimes, the
thing that gives you joy can also hurt you in the
end.

"Loving people means giving them the freedom that
they choose they to be, and where they choose to
be. For all the heartaches and tears, for gloomy
days and fruitless years, you should give time,
for you know that they were the things that help
you grow."

Loving someone means giving him the freedom to
find his way whether it leads toward you or away
from you. Love is a painful risk to take, but the
risk must be taken no matter how scary or painful,
for only then you’ll experience the fullness of
humanity-and that is love.

Only love can hurt your
heart, feel you with desire and tear
you apart. Only love can make you cry and only
love knows why. "If you’re not ready to cry, if
you’re not ready to take the risk, if you’re not
ready to feel the pain, then you’re not ready to
fall in love. "

There are times in our lives when we
become afraid to fall in love ‘cause every time we
do, we get hurt, and then I figured that’s why
it’s called falling in love.

"When you decide to love, allow it to grow. When
you promise to love, refuse to let it die."

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